Sideline Behaviours

At South Tyneside Football Club, we are committed to creating a positive and supportive environment for our young athletes. As parents and guardians, your behaviour on the sidelines plays a crucial role in shaping the experiences of our players. This guide outlines the expectations we have for parents and guardians to ensure that every child enjoys their time on the field and develops not only as a player but as a person.

Key Messages for Parents:

1. See the Child, Not the Professional:
   • Remember, children are not professional footballers. They are here to learn, have fun, and develop their skills. Your expectations should match their developmental stage, not that of seasoned professionals.
2. Mistakes Are Part of Learning:
   • Every mistake is an opportunity for learning. When a child makes a mistake, react with encouragement rather than criticism. Positive reinforcement will help them grow and build confidence.
3. Support the Referee:
   • Many referees are young and still learning themselves. They are human and will make mistakes. Your respect and understanding towards referees, especially those under 18, are essential in maintaining a fair and enjoyable game for all.
4. Think Before You Act:
   • Before reacting to something that happens during the game, consider how your actions might affect the players, the game, and the overall atmosphere. Would your reaction be acceptable in other settings, like at your child’s school play?
5. Encourage, Don’t Direct:
   • Let the coaches do the coaching. Shouting instructions from the sidelines can confuse players, especially if it contradicts what the coach is saying. Instead, focus on cheering and encouraging all the players.
6. React Appropriately:
   • If your child or another player misses a goal or makes a mistake, stay positive. How you react can significantly influence a child’s confidence and enjoyment of the game.
7. Promote a Positive Environment:
   • Your behavior on the sidelines sets an example for your child and others. A positive and respectful attitude promotes a healthy environment for everyone involved.

Best Practices:

• Enjoy the Game: Your child is more likely to enjoy the game if they see you enjoying it too. Smile, cheer, and celebrate the efforts of all players.
• Respect All Participants: This includes players, coaches, referees, and other spectators. Treat everyone with the respect you would expect in return.
• Understand the Game’s Purpose: The primary goal is for children to learn and have fun, not just to win. Focus on the long-term development of your child’s skills and character.

Takeaway Messages:

• They’re Just Kids: Never lose sight of the fact that the players are children. They need your support and encouragement, not pressure.
• Your Behavior Matters: The way you act on the sidelines reflects on the entire club. Help us create a positive image and a welcoming environment for everyone.
• Be a Role Model: Your child looks up to you. Show them how to handle challenges with grace, respect others, and enjoy the game.

Conclusion: 

Thank you for being a part of South Tyneside Football Club. Together, we can ensure that our children have the best possible experience in football, both on and off the field. If you have any questions or need further guidance, please reach out to your team manager or coach.